The library at L.I.T. taught me
something invaluable. While in the final year of B Tech in 1994 we were all
busy with our dissertation. Each student was given a topic by his guide. The initial
phase of the dissertation often involved searching abstracts related to one’s
topic. This was a painful task and often involved hours / days fishing out a
needle in a Haystack!
Every individual was more than busy with his own topic
and rarely had time to assist others.
My friend, however showed
a different approach. Whenever fellow classmates requested him for help with
the abstract search he would more than willingly lend them a helping hand. He
would often, spend days searching abstracts for someone else. As the Final
dates for dissertation drew closer, I could not resist myself from urging him
to stop this social service and concentrate on his dissertation topic.
He did not comment on my unsolicited
advice then. The results spoke for themselves. His dissertation was among the
best. When I thought over it, this is what I realized. While helping others, my friend searched various topics unrelated to his thesis field. He had a 360 ° approach
and often stumbled upon abstracts relevant to his topic, which otherwise he
would not have accessed, had he followed a unidirectional approach in searching abstracts.
Few very popular phrases sum it
up “GIVERS GAIN” ® or “WHAT
GOES AROUND COMES AROUND”® both of which are registered by BNI®
Wonderful experience Amol! So are you still in touch with this friend mentioned in the story?
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